Dear Eric: I play in a community orchestra and sit next to a woman who sometimes comes to rehearsal smelling strongly of alcohol. She has told me that she has been arrested for DUI. We are friendly but don’t see each other outside of orchestra rehearsals and concerts.

I am two months pregnant, or so I thought. I met Steve at a concert three months ago. Our relationship developed quickly, and we became intimate after only a few weeks. Steve is so excited about the baby.